Taurases and Grudges

I really don't know why but taurases can hold grudges for eternity.Even after they die they will take those grudges with them to the grave .Its not that all taurases are like that its just that we taureans give so much out ,we put so much effort in whatever we do that when we don't get it and especially in relationships with people,if someone wrongs us ,do what hurt us badly then for us you are dead.
I am a female and I find this quality more eveovled in taurean females. This is our tragedy ,that our pain is as fresh as it was the day we got it.We can still feel the shivering emotion when we go and relive that moment,thing in memory.This I think we need to fix and one thing about raureans you should know is we are always trying to FIX things, our minds are always trying to grow,we are always thinking,trying to get better so when someone says fix this nature of you we take it personally and get very offended because internally we deal with a lot.So
when I say fix this,I mean to say IGNORE.

One should know That a taurean never get pissed of so easily, So if they are holding grudges badly its very sure that the other party has done something really really off the limits,and in that way its their right to be pissed off.But speaking about us if you feel so bad about your this quality,feeling so much pain in that intensity even after so much time then best thing is ignore.
I know it's our habit to remain calm and quiet from outside and let the pain brew deep inside over and over again but you should understand that its not doing youbany good.Thinking and feeling the pain,anger won't solve it.You can't really get even by thinking about that situation in your way,the way you wanted it to end.It just can't.So best it you ignore.
Ignore every trigger that makes you come close to it.If its the photos then delete them,try to maintain distance with all those people or whatever.
Because our pains ,the pain of bulls are very very deep ,it doesn't gets healed at all.And above it the worst thing that comes out here is we don't have any problem in keeping that pain inside,because we are born as emotional endureres.We can take the most severe emotional pain that's the reason we replay bad things,again and again.
But as I said you should understand that this nature of yours will pull you down in the long run.It just makes you more weak physically and drains your worth .
So ignore,learn to ignore each and every memory,people,situation that makes you hold grudges.,pain,memory.
As you can't fix it.